A bride has been slammed after claiming her pregnant bridesmaid owes her a £30,000
Bridezilla claims her pregnant bridesmaid OWES her a £30K wedding after ‘upstaging’ her on the big day with her ‘vibrant personality’ and ‘attractive husband’
A bride has been slammed after claiming her pregnant bridesmaid owes her a £30,000 wedding after ‘upstaging’ her on her big day.
The Reddit user, 25, who posted on the forum as ‘Ignoredbride’ and is believed to be from the UK, told how ‘star of the story’ Anna stole her limelight and caused her to flee her reception in tears.
She accused her nemesis of getting pregnant ‘without a thought’ in the build up to her wedding, which she had been planning for three years, and eclipsing ‘everyone around her’ on the day due to her ‘vibrant personality’.
The bride also had a pop at Anna’s husband, whom she claims is ‘very tall and incredibly attractive, which drew a lot of attention’.
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A bride has been slammed after claiming her pregnant bridesmaid owes her a £30,000 wedding after ‘upstaging’ her on her big day (stock image)
She said all eyes were on Anna, 25, and her other half when they should have been on her, and as a result she now ‘can’t even look at the pictures without crying’.ADVERTISING
The bride concluded that she desperately wants a ‘do over’ and believes Anna should be the one footing the bill.
But her post on the AmItheA**hole page of the site didn’t go down well with fellow users, with many refuting her claim that she isn’t a bridezilla.
‘”I am not a bridezilla” is what every bridezilla says always,’ one bemused Reddit user quipped, while another commented: ‘It’s not Anna’s fault she decided to live her life. Your planning spanned three years without any consideration OR expectation of possible changes within the people involved. HELLO? Time doesn’t stand still just for you. That alone shows how self-centred you are. You are 100 per cent a bridezilla.’
The bride began her rant by explaining she and her husband got married six weeks ago after three years of planning, with six people on each side of the bridal party.
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The Reddit user, 25, who posted on the forum as ‘Ignoredbride’, told how ‘star of the story’ Anna stole her limelight and caused her to leave her reception in tears
She told how when she got engaged, Anna was single while the other two bridesmaids were in long-term relationships.
‘I wanted to just give the two partnered bridesmaids plus ones. Anna seemed offended by this, because my wedding was then years off, and she was actually dating her now husband at the time (though it was casual),’ she wrote.
After receiving pressure from her mother, the bride eventually gave Anna a plus-one – and Anna went on to marry her boyfriend four months before her wedding at two months pregnant.
The bride went on: ‘She brought her new husband as her plus one (who I never met prior) and convinced one of the other bridesmaids to take her friend as hers (when she KNEW we didn’t like him).
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The disgruntled bride said all eyes were on pregnant Anna, 25, and her other half when they should have been on her, and as a result she now ‘can’t even look at the pictures without crying’ (stock image)
‘She was hugely pregnant, and didn’t refrain from showing it off. We’re both fairly young (25) and in my husband’s culture, getting pregnant before late 20s/30s, married or not, is basically a teenage pregnancy and drew ATTENTION.
‘She also has a vibrant personality and has a way of eclipsing everyone around her. Her husband is also very tall and incredibly attractive, which drew a lot of attention.
‘All anyone spoke about or of was Anna’s pregnancy and her attractive husband. Even in the line, people were asking about that “electric woman” and of her pregnancy/marriage/life.
‘When they got up to dance, all eyes were on them. Anna’s friend ended up hooking up with my brother, outing him as gay and causing a huge scandal.’
The bride told how she ended up leaving her own reception midway through and skipped brunch the following day as a result, while Anna ‘and her entourage’ also left early the next morning.
She moaned: ‘I can’t even look at the pictures without crying and desperately want a do over.
‘I’m not a bridezilla, but this was beyond the pale. It felt like a celebration of Anna’s marriage. I’m sorry, but I put so much planning, effort, and money into this while someone that got pregnant without a thought and married spur of the moment reaped the benefits.
‘I honestly feel like Anna owes me a wedding and did all of this as revenge for me offending her years ago. Am I wrong?’
Her post certainly touched a nerve among Redditors, evoking 851 comments – most of which were negative.